Thanks Jo. Although there is a movement here to stop using 'Happy' with 'Memorial Day' since it's a day to honour the fallen.
Well it is also to remember those who served JoJo even if they survived. Not sure what else one would say anyway.
We still say happy here in my area. Though, it's also tied to paint sales, weekend BBQ and stuff like that.
I guess it's difficult to say the right thing Ivy.